Bander ALSHARFI

Life is ironic in every mean of the word! When you get the feeling that everything is going fine, actually that's the silence before war... in my nature I'm a very simple guy, la ba7eb el laf wala el dawaran bs el zorof sometimes pushes you to the edge! During my days @ BEAT my manager once said: "What goes around comes around!" I just didn't get the real meaning of that until life taught me so! Today’s post is not about you crying over my sad story, actually I’m not gonna even tell it in details, I’ll just scope around, l2ano el balad ad joret el gloool; it’s to remind me and you that nothing stays the same! Every thing eventually changes…

el osa o ma feha ya jama3ah ino I'm losing a close friend, though I'm trying to grab hard with my both hands, my friend is slipping away more everyday! The push and pull thing is not working, I even tried reading some articles about retaining close friends (b3raf fadi ash’3al) nothing worked!

The idea I’m passing here is it’s either we see change coming and start preparing for adaptation, some times change is good for most people but other times it just knocks you down. To stand still complaining and crying won’t solve anything at all. By clock ticks and sun rises and sets, you see change coming to your life, through family, beloved ones, or even work, the more you fight it the more you determine losing the battle. JUST ADAPT!! It’s like every time I try fighting change I find my self going backward instead of moving on!

Things will change, that’s life, alah wakeelko mossalammeh ya hoo, remember 7th grade?! You can feel bad for a bit, bs for the long run r7 toga3 3a rasak if you won’t adapt… I’m not saying I will stop missing or fighting for my friend or the quality time we used to spend, I will even trade my life with a time machine to go back in time, bs life is life, el 3mor 3m yemshi!

I hope you got something valuable from my post, as for me, though I know I’ll be losing, and viva for 1 step forward 2 steps backward, I will keep on pushing to have my friend around me until my will drains.